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15 Essential Tips and Tricks For Any BBW Hookup

You’ve got sex with a BBW on the horizon and need some advice to keep her coming and coming back for more. We’ve got you with 15 ideas and pieces of advice on how to make your BBW hookup a repeat scenario.

  1. Build her confidence.

    Shower her with compliments in order to boost her confidence. Make them as sincere and original as possible. Sure, this is true for all women but especially true for BBWs because many of them have issues keeping body-positive. That’s where you come in. Tell her the things that her body is making your body feel. Tell her that she’s eye candy and you can’t wait to lick her, eat her, have her. Recognize that how confident and comfortable she feels with you directly relates to how much pleasure she will have—and how much pleasure she will want to return.

  2. Use mood lighting.

    Candlelight and other forms of warm, dimmed light are great for two reasons. They are aphrodisiacs and will help inspire that juicy lust, but they also can help women (and men) who feel insecure about their bodies. Every body has imperfections, and softer lighting makes those imperfections less noticeable. Spend some time figuring out how each room in your house lights up differently and how to perfect the mood through lighting.

  3. Encourage BBW lingerie.

    There is a whole world of amazing, mouthwatering lingerie out there not just limited to sexy bras and panties. Think tights, garter belts, corsets, baby dolls, g-strings, chokers, and bustiers. Google that last one and thank us later. As before, there’s a decent chance your BBW is a little body-conscious, and the right lingerie can bring out a whole new side of a woman the moment she walks into the bedroom.

  4. Undress her.

    There’s no better way to way to say, “Your body makes my mouth water,” than to undress a women slowly, calmly, and drinking in every moment. This can go a long way in making your BBW confident and comfortable with you.

  5. Yes, it’s all about her clit—but also your hands.

    BBWs have extra territory for your fingers to roam. The farther you range, the better. Even if one hand is occupied between her legs, the other should be softly exploring a crease, gently dipping a finger in her mouth, pressed against her neck, or searching for her personal titillation points. No matter what size you are in relation to her, if she feels like somehow your hands are all over her body, it will make you seem more and more masculine.

  6. Use pillows strategically.

    Once things start ramping up, it is time to get her into position. If you have sex pillows, you’re golden. If not, consider investing. But until then you can use normal pillows to put her in the Goldilocks Zone of pleasure. Put them underneath her ass or lower back before missionary or eating her out. Or use them with a modified doggy-style by placing 2-3 pillows under her stomach and flatten her body out more than normal. That one tends to guarantee orgasms. Cotton pillows are recommended assuming things are going to get wet.

  7. Use furniture to your advantage.

    Have sex on the couch. You sit down normally and let your Chubby Bunny spread her legs over your laps. This position allows her to grip your shoulders or the back of the couch and have at it. It also allows for good penetration.

  8. Try woman on top.

    This position won’t work for every BBW, especially SSBBWs. For the majority, however, it will allow her to reach around and guide your cock into her. Then she can press herself onto you and hit her g-spot while stimulating her clit. She can lean forward, back, or both depending on how your bodies fit together.

  9. Never hate on Doggy-style.

    This super primal position works for pretty much every imaginable love pair. Tweak with pillows as described above for a powerhouse alternative. This is the go-to, tried-and-true position for BBW hookups.

  10. Start light and sweet.

    When people think of incorporating food with sex, they often overthink it. Sometimes the simplest ingredients make for the best foreplay. Get some ice chips, dip them in sugar, and trade them back and forth while making out. There’s nothing like a cool, sweetened tongue to get you both deep in the mood.

  11. Upgrade to ice pops or ice cream.

    These options work the same way as ice and sugar, but have the added benefit of being able to drip them on each other’s bodies and lick them off. Some articles will tell you to keep food away from the genitals, but that’s child’s play. Don’t be afraid of eating food off of any part of the body.

  12. Get crazy with wild food choices.

    Sure, there are the traditional options like whipped cream and chocolate syrup. But your big, beautiful woman might be up for more unexpected options, like mayonnaise, peanut butter, warm coffee, honey, sushi, beer, spices, and whatever else might be in your kitchen. There are no fucking rules to this game.

  13. Put your cock between her breasts.

    If you’ve never tried a good old titty-fuck (God, I hope you have), then you need to try it as soon as possible. Especially with the large breasts of BBWs, this move can be extremely arousing for both partners. That alone can make a BBW hookup worthwhile.

  14. Use sex toys.

    Sex with BBWs can sometimes require a little help from a friend. That friend is the sex toy. Especially if you have difficulty getting it in or keeping it in, a dildo or vibrator can be the miracle solution.

  15. Try watching BBW porn together.

    This option is great for a number of reasons. First, if your BBW is a little body-conscious, this can be a great, hands-off method for reassuring her that you genuinely find big curves super sexy. It can also help with nervousness. You’re still sharing a deeply intimate experience together, but in a more indirect manner. Then when you both feel comfortable, you can get have an orgasm competition with your television. And so many times during sex there are missed opportunities for incorporating unexpected and creative sex ideas. Good BBW porn will provide you with lots of ideas to try out.