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7 Unexpected Ways To Meet BBW Girls

If you are like most Fat Admirers (FA), you know how difficult it can be to meet BBW girls. It is time to think outside the box on this. For a more traditional rundown of where you can find big, beautiful women, check out our article 5 Secret Places BBWs Hang Out (And How To Infiltrate Them).

This article takes a different approach to help you with the same goals. Instead on focusing on those pockets where BBW girls normally hang out, we are looking at places where BBWs look for quality men. If you can plant yourself in these spots as often as possible, your chances of finding big, beautiful love—or big, beautiful sex—will go up exponentially.

Read on for unexpected ways to meet chubby bunnies.

  1. The Barbecue Party

    Everyone loves barbecue, no matter your age or size. Except vegetarians and vegans, but for whatever reasons there aren’t many vegan BBW girls out there.

    What’s great about being at a BBQ party is how natural it is to mingle and make new connections. There is an expectation that you will talk to strangers, but none of the added social/romance pressure you find at bars and clubs. You’re free just to have a regular conversation.

    Of course, there is the added bonus of a home-grilled meal for you and the women. Conversation, drinks, a meal…this is starting to sound like a date, right? Of course it is not a date, so don’t get all worked up and nervous. The point is it would be very natural to ask a BBW girl to get another meal sometime, only as a date.

    Barbecues are great venues for set-ups, so go when you get invited. Or you can do one even better and host your own, encouraging your friends to invite friends. BBWs tend to respect a man who can host a good BBQ and grill meat well.

    Women are constantly trying to set each other up, probably more often than you think. Take advantage by getting your ass to a BBQ every summer weekend.

  2. Your Friends’ Workplaces

    Let me tell you a secret about picking up larger women. It is tough to sweep them off their feet at a big party filled with amazing options and eye candy. It is much, much easier to impress them when they are bored out of their minds at work.

    Do a little investigating and plotting with your friends. Ask around to see if there are any BBW opportunities at their work. Then stop by. Preferably you should have some impressive reason, like you are taking your friend out to lunch to cheer him up because his dog died (detail obviously being key).

    Your friend will be swamped with work naturally, so you may have to stand around for a while and chat some people up. Then focus in on the BBW and say something playful (but slightly forward because you don’t have all day), like “Wow, you know you look really good at your job.”

    The best part is that you only have to make a good impression. If you can’t lock down the digits smoothly, your friend can return to her later and mention how you think she’s gorgeous, funny, etc., etc. Then he exchange numbers on your behalf. It’s always good to have an inside man.

    Women always look for men at their workplace, but feel guilty about it. Your in prime position because you don’t actually work there.

  3. Lectures, Conferences, and Seminars

    Pick a topic, or two, or ten, that you like and think will attract BBW girls. It could be cooking, self-help, or spirituality. Alternatively try conventions like Comic Con. Or simply find a conference center that regularly holds events and stop by from time to time with a wing-man. You might end up learning a lot and meeting some interesting or super-funny people.

    The pros of working lectures, conferences, and seminars is that is encourages low-key conversation with likeminded people. Visitors put their defenses down and relax when they feel that they are surrounded by their kind of people. Plus you don’t need an original opener because you’ve got a built in conversation starter.

    Men aren’t the only tricksters when it comes to meeting others, it’s just that women are more subtle about it. You can bet that when two girls come into town for a conference and rent a hotel room, they are definitely chatting about the quality of the meat selection—and I’m not talking about Ribeye.

  4. Charity Work and Philanthropy

    If you’re the kind of guy who’s willing to help out the needy, then you are in an incredible position.

    Women who are willing to do charity work (there’s a lot of them) often do so with the thought in the back of their mind, “This would be a great place to meet a good man…and it would make a wonderful meeting story.”

    You know what, they’re absolutely right.

    This one is a win-win-win for everyone involved, from the people who are down on their luck to the best man at your wedding when it comes time to write a killer toast.

  5. Bar Trivia Nights

    Really any themed night at a bar works wonders for these. In the experience of the author, however, trivia night tends to attract BBW girls more than others. That definitely speaks well to the intelligences of big, beautiful women.

    This option works well because there is drinking, and that’s always helpful. There is also an air of friendly competition, which can similarly get the right juices flowing. Finally, there’s a very natural conversation piece—the trivia itself—waiting for you to cash in.

    If you want to get your foot in the door, consider buying that big, beautiful woman (and her friends if you’re a high roller) a “Good Luck” drink at the beginning. It’s the perfect way to smoothly show interest and begin a night-long interaction.